It’s a nice thing that we are just strangers on the internet, helping and sharing our most personal stuff.

Do yourself a favor and don’t put too much effort into trying to repair and work through horrible behavior from a girlfriend or friend. And be very grateful she showed you her true colors before you made a commitment and had kids with her.

The nerve of her to ask you to pay her rent while she continues to date in order to built “trust” in you is ridiculous. I’ll bet you can now think of some choice things you would have liked to respond to her about that.

I must admit, I’ve known some really bizarre people. I knew a woman who married this man who had a job that entailed traveling often. She was appalled that he had the nerve to expect her to live with him once they were married. She thought he was going to keep her while he traveled and was never home! And of course, it ended disastrously. There are many users, and I hope this taught you to not be a victim of one again.

If she was your first love, I can see how you were so sucked in that you lingered too long after seeing her ugliness.

Put her dinner on your credit card, ha!

Relationships are a give and take.