Quote:
Originally Posted by maybeblue
I think you should tell him how much pain you feel because of it. I don't know if I would use the words "I love you." You would know better than me if that would freak him out or not. You could call it attachment or missing being with him. Or that you think about him all the time and that you worry he doesn't like you when he doesn't respond to your texts.
I'll be honest, I think that maybe some of the solution to how painful this is would be for you to try to deepen some of your other relationships. And maybe your therapist can help with that...help you figure out who else in your life might be safe to share a little more with, etc.
|
I don't want to though, I don't like people much. I was never in therapy for help with relationships. It just sort of came up that I dislike people and have touch issues etc.
I HATE HATE HATE the closeness feelings I have with him, it is beyond terrifying. I sure do not wanna do that with anyone else.
No idea how he would react, I don't know him at all in that sense. he has gone opposite all my guesses so far . All I know is when he thought I had romantic feelings he said nothing was gonna change.
The fact that people have to "debate" if its ok to tell someone you love them, shows how sad the world is. Everyone should be able to, without it meaning anything romantic, not enough love in the world.
I am not gonna tell him anyway. This thread has scared me out of it, lol.