The session he cancelled because “things came up” was last week. He just cancelled our session this week too - I texted him to ask if i was in his calendar because I didn’t trust that I was after what happened last time and he responded that he was just going to text me, that he forgot his kid had a thing, sorry. No mention of rescheduling, just sorry.

We meet outside his office for sessions because he changed jobs three years ago and his new office is too far for me and a handful of his other clients. One of us usually texts the other one to say we are on our way so we get to the place we are meeting around the same time. It’s not a confirmation, just a hey, I’m on my way message. I texted that to him last week and didn’t get a response until five minutes before our session was supposed to start.

We used to talk a lot via text outside of sessions but we hadn’t spoken for a few days prior to this happening. Every other time we had a pause in outside communication, he asked me if we were still meeting. This time, he changed the rules...or that’s what it feels like anyway.

Is us not talking outside of session for a few days what i did wrong that makes this OK?