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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
I get this a lot too. I feel like 50% of the population have become complete roll overs and will just do "whatever" and now that has become what is considered nice. But standing up for rules and things that matter now has become mean. When it isn't. So we get tagged as being mean.
IMHO mean is targeting people when there is no good reason to. But when there is there is no meanness.
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Exactly. People have told me 4 years to calm down. I'm calm I just disagree with xyz. The very first therapist I saw her and I got at it bad about this topic. Why is it when a woman is so blunt like a guy it's a huge prob? That's why people say I'm mean.