Thanks, those are big triggers for me too! Anything involving being judged, seeing people argue, aggression in any form verbally or otherwise, and suicide-related topics are things that I need to stay away from. I think I might need to set a boundary with brother, while being supportive, which is a hard balance. Some of the things he reports about his depression really trigger me and concerns me. I want to be there, but it's a little re-traumatizing at times. I want him to go to a counselor. He keeps coming to me though, and I get it, because he knows that I understand....but I wish he'd seek someone outside of the family. I still want to let him know I am there for him though.