Another scenario would be that a partner did not confront you or think of you as sick or unmoral but would instead understand and accept that people make mistakes, can move/grow past them, and are not ever defined by them. In this scenario, the partner would either leave in an amicable way if they could not accept the past, or else they would understand, forgive, move on, and not hold the past against you forever, not insult you, not over-the-top, implausibly blame you for problems in their life, and not bring the past up over and over.