Wow.

First of all, feel free to deliver this to him, from me.


Wtf is wrong with him? It's none of his business how many people you slept with, and he should be trying to help you understand and work on the issues that caused you to seek solace in sex. And then to turn around and call you a slut?! Ha. I'd have walked out and never looked back.

Honestly, you really should just *****-slap him the next time he says something out of the side of his neck. You need to check him, and check him hard. You establish a very firm line in the sand, and you tell him, that's it. You cross this again, and it's over.

Seriously...I'm getting pissed off just hearing it because of how much I had to go through to get to where I am and be with who I am with. If he would have said it within earshot of me, it would have been on like donkey kong, public place or not. He needs to get over himself--he's not a special snowflake, and he doesn't get to sit in judgement of your past because it had nothing to do with him. It's none of his business, period. And the fact that he is quasi-religious is absolutely hysterical--Pretty sure there are some major religious texts that say things like, Judge not lest ye be judged, pull the plank out of your own eye first and then help your neighbor, etc. Part of all religions is the basic idea that we pull each other up, keep our opinions to ourselves, and never judge someone else until you've walked in their shoes.

You don't deserve to have your past thrown around as a barb every time he gets angry or upset, and to tolerate that is to debase your own intrinsic value as a human being. Your past is buried in the past; the only thing that should concern him is the present, and how you fit into it, and since he's clearly not trying to fit you in, he's clearly not serious about you. If he can't deal, then kick his *** to the curb and find someone worthy of your time.