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Old Feb 22, 2018, 01:16 PM
Anonymous87914
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Originally Posted by Tucson View Post
All this feeling for revenge should do is have you question your motives behind this behavior. I think it is the anger that gets you out of bed, and not necessarily the desire to seek revenge. This is just my opinion.
I agree with you. I never thought my (now ex) husband would ever cheat on me though. I lost weight while we were still married. I thought 'If he won't love me somebody else will' (revenge). I lost 50 pounds while he was cheating with a dispatcher (he was a police officer) and I was unaware of his cheating. I lost 25 more pounds after I found out (that part was not revenge, it was due to depression).