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Originally Posted by AnnaBegins
He's told me a few times that I am responsible for creating a wedge between us by being too negative. Whenever he does that, I have a hard time talking to him outside of session because I don't always have only positive things to say. But if too many days go by without us talking outside of session, he seems to get upset and think I am ignoring him.
I thought sessions were the one place where it was safe to just be me - negative, positive, whatever.
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He thinks *you're* ignoring *him*? Therapy is supposed to be about you and your feelings, not the therapist's. And it should be safe in session to be however you're feeling (I mean, aside from like trying to physically attack the T.)