Hi, OP, I just want to make it clear that I was not saying he is the one for you. I was saying the opposite. I think that just because you both have insecurities, that should not bind you to each other. He is using yours against you and stepping all over you. Just because he is not purposely hurting you, or being malicious with you...I mean, do you see HIM changing? I do think you should make up your own mind about your situation, at the same time. I'm just not sure staying with him will help you in the long run (in my opinion).