my ex-T disclosed little. I knew probably a little bit more about her because her one daughter was signed up for a program that I worked at, but she was pretty blank slate.

My current T is much more laid back and open. She's shown me a video of her kids (I also am a preschool teacher, so it was relevant), and know one thing about her mental health in the past, and little tid bits here and there. It always is brought up because of whatever it is I am talking about. She used to go on tangents a bit more, but she quickly realized that I shut down at that, so she has reigned herself in