
Feb 22, 2018, 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
And if I say, for example, that if he's seeing me multiple times a week, I worry he'll get sick of me, I want him to say, "Of course I'm not sick of you. I like working with you." But instead, he'll say something like, "You're my job." In the sense of, it doesn't matter if he's sick of me or not, I'm paying him for his time, he's going to work with me. When I talked to my H about it, he referred to the furnace repair guy, and said that guy isn't going to be like, "Ugh, I'm so sick of these broken furnaces! And I had to go back to one a second time this week!" If he does, he needs to change jobs (same as a T).
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Nice, H! I agree with that analogy. Not all T's (or people) are going to give such reassurances like MC did. And just saying "it's my job" also doesn't mean that you are just a paycheck to him.
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