It probably comes as no surprise to you all that my t discloses a LOT. The only thing that was problematic that he has since corrected was *****ing about other clients albeit vaguely I still found it distressing. What if he is talking crap about me to someone else?

But most of his disclosures are extremely helpful. Especially how he handles his own abuse history as an adult. That has been very helpful. It helps me keep a realistic view of who he is as a person. Yes I do get jealous of his family. But that is real life and I share people with other people and I need to learn how to deal with that.