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Originally Posted by growlycat
Do your feelings if neediness flare up when you are actually getting your needs met? At least for me, I seem to go a long time without attending to my emotional needs but once someone helps fill some my brain goes crazy and I cant get enough.
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It's like I tell myself that I don't deserve to have those needs met and that I am not good enough to have those needs met and convince myself that I can't have those needs met and can accept that - and then if someone comes along and does something that meets those needs, I get insanely hopeful that maybe it really is OK for someone like me to have something like that and crave it more than I did in the first place. And when that someone goes away, the lack of it hurts twice as much.