Exactly. We're all in this together. Let's not create unnecessary divisions between us. The experts can barely put us into boxes (and change their minds and disagree -- I've had both dx's as have many others), why do we think we'd do any better and what on earth is to be gained by it except division itself?

We're always told not to worry about the dx, but to treat the symptoms. Let's keep taking that to heart. There is far more that unites us than divides us.