I was still hyped when I left work but it quickly turned to rage when I picked my son up. He got two check minuses on his homework for what I consider to be minor mistakes that any first grader might make (not using a punctuation mark and misspelling a word). This combined with the fact that he hasn’t had his vocabulary folder for three fridays (I was only aware that this was the second week, not the third) led her to write, on his paper, WHERE HE AND ANYONE ELSE COULD SEE IT, “is there a problem at home?” F*CKING WHAT???? How rude and inappropriate is that??? I would NEVER do that as a teacher. If I had concerns I would reach out to the parent privately, not where the student could see it. I don’t care that he’s only in first grade, he can read and understand things really well. He was upset by that comment! And I am livid!!! I haven’t like this teacher at all this year and I really don’t like her now.
To her point, though, I do think it’s time to get my son into therapy. He’s been talking a lot more about death and dying, and in particular about his dad. He’s also been giving me absolute hell over doing his homework whereas previously he hadn’t had an issue. I’m hoping that I will still have energy on Monday to get this **** done. I WILL get it done, I have to for him. I want to try to prevent him from going through what I did as a teen/young adult. But now I’m afraid that I won’t be able to
Of course this makes me even more angry at my stupid ****ing husband. He is SUCH an ***hole.