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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
Oh I don’t know how I would feel if a t told me about their abuse history. I can guess from some of what my t says that her life has been extremely difficult but I don’t know a lot of the what’s and when’s. How did you feel Growly when your t told you that?
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He told me fairly early on and surprisingly it helped me open up to him faster than I have with t’s in my past. I never went into abuse specifics with my last t in ca at all. My long my term t, it took me at least 7 years to even remotely get into it with him. I have told current t a lot fairly quickly because what he and I went through have a lot of parelells in terms of age it happened, the feelings of shame etc. I thought his self disclosure would feel intrusive but it did not.