Growly: do you think that you shared sooner was because of your previous relationship with your other T? That you WERE able to open up to him about it, led to you being able to be more open with Kashi?

I don't know, and I know your relationship with Kash is unique in its own ways. I have no idea if I would have been able to me more open with my current T if I hadn't already discussed some of it with my previous T. I suppose it is a chicken or egg scenario.

I am rambling, sorry.