Earlier, my soon to be ex husband came to my apartment drunk begging me to take him back and I ended up having to call the police because he got angry with me and won't leave when I refused to take him back and I told him to leave. After that unpleasant experience I started to think about why I always seem to go for guys who seem great but then they turn out be a very toxic person for me. I'm beginning to think that there is just something wrong with me that makes fall for this type of guy and I'm think that maybe I shouldn't try to find someone else after this relationship. Am I right in thinking this or, am I wrong in thinking this.