Virgin or not, your sexual history, or lack thereof, doesn't define who you are. You are a great person and are just being more selective of whom you share you're first intimate encounter with. Nothing wrong with that.

I was 27, nearly 28, when I first was intimate with a man. Sure, we parted ways, but he'll always have a special place in my heart as my first experience. I'll never forget that.

A therapist I used to go to once told me that I was a late bloomer, that I just did everything on my own schedule, which happen to be at a later time than most other folks. It didn't mean I was lacking in anything, or that I had a problem of any kind. I just took a bit longer to reach certain milestones and achieve certain goals. Hence, a late bloomer.

I believe the same applies to you. You just do things at your own pace, and you shouldn't feel any less of a person for doing so. You're just following the beat of your own drum is all. I find such people, like you and I, to be more intriguing anyways. We are the ones who stand out, and I feel that standing out is a good thing. I'd sooner stand out than blend into society and it's conventions of what is normal. It's like being a diamond in the rough. We are special inside and out, and with the right love, attention and care, we'll be dazzling in any light that shines on us.

I hope you're feeling better now, and please, take care.