Where you are giving her opportunity to change after how she acted is where you are doing yourself a disservice. Once a prospective life partner shows you they are rude, nervy, obnoxious, selfish, manipulative, etc... they are showing you who they are. They can’t change. These are deal breakers. You move on and fine someone else who treats you better.

It’s ironic that I am sitting here giving good advice, that I can’t even take myself. I’m stuck in a toxic marriage for 25 years.