I wish I could feel comfortable with dating again. I feel very lonely as my sons grow up and get closer to adulthood and independence. I have no social life. I am finishing my degree and have not been on a date in years. I am out of touch and have no faith in relationship longevity. Maybe I am causing my own problems but the last time I compromised for a man...he manipulated me. I feel very defensive and self-protective. I can't date like this.