It’s been difficult to unwrap the complexity of this person & the advice I’ve received.
Like I said, most of the advice I’ve been given & asked for has been beneficial & useful in helping me grow. The last time I saw my T & explained some things I was surprised to hear my T uttering a concurring direction to look at, one I don’t relish. And I was like “crap, this person said the same thing....maybe their right?”

The teachings & advice I’ve been given from this person has been very enlightening & life changing. I can’t go back now to the person I was before bec of this knowledge I’ve gained about myself.

So yes I feel like proof should be in the puddle so to speak, but it’s not 100% there. Typically most find their way & prophetize (so) it to others. I mean isn’t that how self help books r set up?

This person is beyond intelligent, extremely well read type philosopher/ teacher/ guru. And I guess they take their own advice, but seems to have human hang ups too, like all of us.
It’s just very hard to listen...& not point fingers then.