Dear Starrysky, it appears we have some things in common. I've actually had similar communication issues with my own brother, who is on the autism spectrum. He is very intelligent and functions at a high level, for which I commend him. I realize he can't help what he can't help. However, as an individual of a sensitive nature, it has been tough for me to shake it off when his words/body language have come across as flippant towards matters of significance to me.

I understand where you're coming from and would like to assure you that it is not irrational for you to feel the way you do. Your responses during these exchanges were reasonable. When it's your family, it can hit you exceptionally hard in the heart, I know. It may be best to keep a certain distance to protect yourself from unneeded hurt if he won't acknowledge that his words/actions come across as less than considerate. Your feelings are valid, too important to have continuously dismissed by anyone. You have the support of this forum and I can be reached here anytime, just sayin'.