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Originally Posted by Llama_Llama44
No apologies necessary, and I can only really speak for myself- reading can take a fair amount of effort / mental energy for some of us though.
From my experience (as a child in a pretty ADHD heavy household), I would say that whatever can be done to keep things at home feeling safe and calm would be good (easier said than done, I know). SOMEONE needs to make sure the kids have some sort of structure and routine, and some self-esteem would be nice, too... hopefully that can be the parents.
I agree that you can't take this all on by yourself! I just thought I'd add my thoughts (not having read your posts fully tbh).
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I understand we are all different. My daughter loves to read and write. Our daughter is divorced and there is no good father influence in the grandkids lives. Our daughter gets so easily frustrated at her kids. Being unable to give herself a routine, she is not good at giving her children a routine. However she does try, but it falls through regularly. I do what I can but our daughter wants to be the mother and we are secondary when it comes to the kids and that is how it should be. But I see a lot that could be better. I am being patient and trying to learn how to best help.
Thanks for your insight.