Yes, my go-to fantasy when I’m driving alone, and there’s a song playing by some great singer, is I am new to my high school and auditioning for the rock ensemble class. I am the beautiful girl I wish I was, and the exceptional singer too. And the boys I had a crush on are taken with me. Gosh, I’ve been playing that scene over in my head for 40 years!

“Perhaps I should play my guitar for real instead of imagining...”. Why not do both?