Sometimes we take things at face value and take people s words to heart. Sometimes guys can be reckless with words.
When I passed my driving test, Fred put the fear of death in me and I was terrified to get even a scratch on his car. After stopping wearing heels,painting my nails and barely putting on much make up. He said I couldn't afford to crash the car.
It was ages before I plucked up courage to drive. I had forgotten all the inst ructions on parking. I went to park at my parents and the space was a little tight. So I swung car round trying different angles and I parked like half a metre from where I was aiming
But I was scared to death of bumping car after Fred.
My neighbour came into my mum's and was a proper dik. My first ever parking attempt. I didn't hit anything and Fred didn't help me at all. And he said that he knew it was a woman driving as it was one of the worst parking try out s he had witnessed in a long time.
Well I hadn't driven after my test I'd left a gap. Fred didn't help me. I was nervous. And scared to hit anything. All considering. Hardly any wonder some find it hard to MUST Ard the courage . I can see why a one off crash can dent someone's confidence and cause them PTSD. All it takes is one bad comment or experience to change perspective. A hundred people can say you are good yet one person has an awful day and says something terrible and you remember that one bad comment.
I was good at my sport and I am a cautious and careful driver who "touch wood" has stayed out of danger. I hate to tempt fate. I think the guy has changed after marrying the right person. I wish we would wake up and see that words hurt the most. reason deen