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Originally Posted by growlycat
I disagree of course. Knowing that t had the experience that felt as unbearable and as shameful as mine really helped me beieve he would not judge me or see me as disgusting. Sure he makes me feel special too but that is sort of a bonus, not the reason it makes it easier to talk.
My long term t as as skilled a t as you are going to find o. The US and he practiced a certain amount of self disclosure too. Not everyone wants or works well with a blank slate t.
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Why people can only think in terms of blank slate if the T doesn't disclose, baffles me.
Someone can talk about themselves yet be completely cut off from their emotions.
In fact the more self disclosure, I'd say the more cut off they are.
I couldn't work well with someone not in touch fully with themselves.