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Originally Posted by feileacan
I guess I really don't understand how human connection and self disclosures are related at all. According to my understanding human connection develops with being together, sharing the feelings and closeness together in the moment. I don't see how disclosures from T's part are necessary for that. To my mind it actually dilutes the connection because the attention is drawn away from the mutual relationship and feelings in the moment.
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Idk, it's just how it works for me, feeling like I am dealing with someone who is flawed and not "perfect".... and knowing they have issues like me, its helpful to me.