I agree with this 100%. I do not know for sure but I assume you live with your mother, and are dependent on her help. This needs to change. Until you are able to move out on your own and become self-sufficient, your mom will be a weight that ties you down. She will likely push away any other would-be suitors that she does not find to her liking.

Get your own life in order, and your options for potential partners will increase dramatically. Until then, you will likely only attract those with their own severe problems and your mother will not find them to be suitable for you.