My husband brought the subject of having more children. He suggested that we have another baby because we're becoming hopeless in our marriage. He claims the best parts of our marriage was right after we had our children and during my pregnancies I was very loving. I agreed with him, but in my mind it just seemed at that point in our relationship it just so happens the kids came along as well. We were happier during those times and loved each other...or so we thought.

I haven't shot down his suggestion completely yet.

But to be honest it's the last thing I want right now, with my eldest turning four this up coming month and full time college.

Our marriage has reached a point where we can both quietly agree that it is empty and loveless and by far for functional purposes. A sad marriage.