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Feb 26, 2018, 01:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Coming up tails
Does anyone find it hard when they have really opened up and been personal, to have your t then be polite but professional.
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It may sound dumb but the contrast just feels like a slap after being so personal.
Not sure if anyone will understand. Im not saying I dont want my t to be professional but its hard to be open then feel slapped with oh... thats right.. this is a business deal feeling right after.
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It does not sound dumb at all and I have definitely felt that slap you describe. You pour out what to you feels like your soul and what you want in return is not polite professionalism, but a little heart.
It is definitely a reminder that I am paying the person sitting across from me to teach me how to be vulnerable while they remain safe behind their role. But I have called my T on it a couple of times. I understand the need for professional distance so they can remain objective, but they can take that a bit too far in what I believe is self-preservation instead of what's best for the client.
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