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You bet!! Agonizing over writing about raw feelings and being transparent for it to be dismissed or not addressed at all! I become passive aggressive and say to myself..."Fu@# that I am not telling him anything anymore. He does not deserve it." Like that is punishing him or something. Who does that hurt? It only hurts me I guess.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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