I say people can’t change because they don’t.

Look at my struggle with my husband. Neither of us have changed in order to fix it.

People show you who they are. They are what they are. Either accept them as they are or don’t.

We hung in together because we do have deep, caring feelings for each other. We do have really good times together very often. We raised a family together.

My husband has lied to me by promising over and over he really gets it, understands what I want, and will give it to me...but he won’t ever do it. It’s just not in his mind no matter what.