You said something interesting about you formed intense connection of love to your gf. So intense, you are considering battling out trying to change her horrid, loveless behavior!

I don’t feel such intense permanence to people.

Where Borderlines will make frantic attempts to avoid abandonment, I expect it. I love people and enjoy them, but always feel like it’ll end and that’s ok. I have a hard time feeling like something is true, safe, forever. I’m always prepared for the rug to get pulled out from under me. But, instead of clinging to people, maybe I do sabotage the relationship. I think of people as for right now and don’t let myself count on them always being there.