Look, I was surrounded by nothing but men for 13 years. I know bull**** when I see it. That's not male sensitivity (and if it was, he still had it coming for calling her a slut--that's supposed to be someone he's serious about?), it's called him over-reacting because he feels guilty about something, or he fears something, one or the other. Anger is a very strong emotion for that situation. Whatever it is, he's blaming her for it because it's her past but that's his problem, not hers.

That's what I think is going on.

And therapist needs to have her license revoked. She violated some pretty serious ethical laws no matter what country you're in.