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Originally Posted by blubbbrabbel
No. And I doubt he would ever see a point in doing so. No matter what will happen or how much I have or will change... In his opinion my past behaviour was sick. He can't understand how anyone can waste themselves in this way. How anyone can treat their body as cheap.If he believed that I had changed he would not call me a slut I the present but still think of my past self as slut.
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What I think is important to focus on is how the relationship is in the current present, according to nothing but the present and the upcoming future. Anyone who ruminates in the past is wasting their time in the relationship. You may want to see how you continue the relationship based on what's in the present and what will be in the future, NOT the past