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Originally Posted by Vibrating Obsidian
What I think is important to focus on is how the relationship is in the current present, according to nothing but the present and the upcoming future. Anyone who ruminates in the past is wasting their time in the relationship. You may want to see how you continue the relationship based on what's in the present and what will be in the future, NOT the past
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I strongly agree. Our challenge however is that he is in a really bad state and to him it is all because of my past and the way he found out about it.