Welcome Gary! It is so true how society places so much on looks and beauty. Contrary to what we want to believe, most of society chooses things by looks. We sell, promote and show with beauty, but what they don't say is that beauty on the outside will someday fade. I believe that beauty does come from within. I have tried to teach my children this, but I don't think that at their age they believe me. I hope that someday they understand and find the true meaning of beauty. I have had dates with guys who have made me feel ugly and undesirable. Even to this day at times those words come to my head that they said to me. It is hard to keep your confidence up when you get feelings of insecurities like this.

On a lighter note, my son lives in Florida, but in the Cape Coral area. He has been there for two years and loves it. He was home for Christmas and hated the cold. (Michigan). I am hoping to visit there again in Feb or March. (crossing fingers)

I think you will find many people here who are supportive and helpful. I know I have!

Once again, welcome to the forum Gary!
Darlene