For those of you who have a good relationship with your T: do you think you "molded" them in some way to be how you need them to be? If so, is the relationship still real?

I know there's things I don't like about my T, so I'm not completely idealizing her. But I wonder if some of the things she does is only because I need that of her and so she adjusted? Would she adjust if our relationship was different? Is she still herself? I guess it sometimes feels too good to be true when it comes to my T. I wonder why someone like her chooses to stay in my life. I know she says she treats all her clients the same. So did I just get lucky and find a T that matches me so well? Or is this an act?

**Btw: no I don't think it's a complete act. If I did, I'd leave.