I don't even know where to start, so rather than write a wall of text I'll just start with the fact that the prospect of him staying with me whilst looking for a job makes me sick to my stomach. It isn't that I don't love him, it is just that I have dreaded the prospect that he would move into my basement and play video games all day since he was a teenager. And we have big problems with boundaries and he sometimes has screamed at me that I am a ******, which i truly hate.

He's tired of being at my sisters because they live way out in the suburbs with no public transportation and he just got his driver's license and isn't all that comfortable driving yet and has no one to socialize with. My sister has taken care of him but doesn't recognize his need to get out of the house, meet people his own age and do things on his own.

He is quite abrupt with me when we text or talk on the phone it seems he never has time and just has to go. I don't know what to do.