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Originally Posted by Talthybius
He certainly sexually fantasizes with these men? You mean his sexual fantasy is somehow a threesome or he envisions himself to be one of those other men?
That is strange. Either strange period, or strange to think he is fantasizing about that. Where did that come from?
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This is where:
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Originally Posted by blubbbrabbel
He found out about my past bit by bit. When I did not answer his questions his fantasy went crazy... But now every little detail I told him is hunting him and us ...
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He felt it was safe to fantasize about her with another man, figuring she was with one or two others. When he found out it was ten, his pride was hurt, and he was still aroused by it, but now it wasn't what he wanted, or the reality of it caught up with him. Either way, he blames her for it, feels emasculated (most likely) and found that he can relieve that feeling by belittling her and controlling every aspect of his life. So it's not that she's a slut. It's that she's
his slut, and his ridiculous delusions are fed by a crack-pot therapist who is violating her own code of ethics as a therapist by coming between them and telling him he will never feel better until he gets rid of her.
That is what I see.