Nope, not undefined. Set limits. Everyday from 8-5 he's out of the house working on finding a job. He can go to job centers, libraries. He treats you with respect or he's no longer welcome, he starts yelling and that's it. Set the rules and have him sign a contract.
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…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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