By sexual trauma, I mean however you define it. What I feel is traumatic, might not be for you and vice versa.

When talking about it with your therapist, how much detail do you share? Do you think the gender of your therapist matters? I'm female and my therapist is male, for what it's worth. We've talked about things I feel are traumatic for me. He's often said things like I know you're leaving out details, which makes me wonder what is normal to share detail-wise. I don't think he's being prurient about it. I'm just curious what others' feel comfortable sharing with their therapist.