I am female with a male T. No, I don't go into detail. I have a female group T with all female members and although I feel freer and more comfortable in group T, I still do not go into detail about the abuse.
For the most part, I have only talked about the different ages when the abuse happened, duration (whether it was a single instance or prolonged) and the perpetrator's relation to me. Going into detail about the abuse is not healing for me.
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