If you want to save this relationship, you can tell him you will not tolerate being called a slut any more and that he needs to accept your past and move on in a healthy way. If he can control himself, then yes, the relationship can change. He also has to stop with the distrust and the lists. You won’t tolerate it. You are not a liar and he will just have to trust his partner. If he can’t do that, especially since you gave him NO REASON to distrust you, then the relationship is over.

And you won’t put up with any other abuse from him as well.