youOme,

I know I've said this before, but why are you staying with a man that gives you so much grief? I know that you think this is what's best for your children, but look at it from their perspective. Kids know when you're unhappy they know a lot more than you are giving them credit for.

Think about their future too, do you want your daughter to learn that this is all there is in a relationship? Do you want your son to learn that this is how he should treat his wife?

Either the two of you get help and develop a healthy relationship or you move on. The relationship the way it is now is just a mattter of time before it gets to the point where it cannot be repaired.

Good Luck!