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Originally Posted by Nammu
Nope, not undefined. Set limits. Everyday from 8-5 he's out of the house working on finding a job. He can go to job centers, libraries. He treats you with respect or he's no longer welcome, he starts yelling and that's it. Set the rules and have him sign a contract.
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I would agree with this. If you set rules/limits it would work better if you’re as gentle as possible, or he may become defensive.
But if he isn’t open to even talking on the phone with you without being rushed.. maybe not. It’s a difficult dilemma