Hi.
My boyfriend (well we are over 40) has cut all contact with me for over a week.

We have been a couple for a few years and had everyday Contact.
He has used the silent treatment or Cold shoulder sometimes when he was angry with me, and cut Contact for a half day or so.

He recenty got OCD problems, but has help in training Groups therapy. The demand to Control things I Think has also had an effect on our relationship in the form of jealousy. (looking for signs, and then gets angry but it is not the true)

This time he wrote to me that I must now take the consequences of my behaviour" (The behaviour was not really bad.) We have also been had lot of fights during these years.

And now he has cut Contact for over a week. He wrote somehting about he did not have the energy to discuss with me, he had to focus on his training. I let him be for a week but I am heartbroken and want to talk to him, I Think he wants to leave me. In that case I will accept but I need to get a closure or final talk, so he can say it out in the air. Or is he just angry and use this as a punishment?

I can hardly Think about something else and misses him so much and at the same time I am so hurt that he reads my messages but does not answer at all. So long time now.
Were supposed to live together, felt he was my soul mate and we have had so great times also. I feel like my Life will be over if he leaves me, but I know it is not true, I know I will heal and possible it is the best for us.

But first thing first.
How do I stop this silent treatment?
I want to know, are we over or not.

Help?