AAAAA...thanks so much for your advise...and yes it was helpful!
I'm torn because I want my daughter to play, but it does get to much for me. As for my smaller child, one of my daughter's closests friend brings her sister over and they play together. Funny that you say if my husband can perhaps take over on Wednesday because one of his days off of work is Wednesdays. The thing is that his method of supervision is him looking himself up in his room and watching a movie and leaving me all alone. It seems that since I'm a stay at home mom, he believes that it is my job to deal with everything to do with the kids and the house. The kids that come over to do the homework are three sibling friends whose mom is blind.....so I do feel guilty not to want to do it....yet I feel resentful, because at times I see their dad come home early and I think to myself..."these are his kids, why doesn't he help them with the homework". I feel torn....I don't want my daughter to miss out, yet I don't want to live angry and resentful over this...that's why for me two days is fair...now if my husband took over on Wednesdays and truly supervised and did all the cleaning up afterwards, I would be in agreement.